Emma was overjoyed when a positive pregnancy test confirmed her and Jack’s hopes. After months of trying, they were finally starting their family. But things didn’t go as planned.
Here is Emma’s story:
After reading many letters from your readers, I felt brave enough to share mine. My husband and I had a beautiful baby boy. The labor was long and hard, but holding my newborn son made it all worth it. When I first looked into his eyes, I knew we had picked the perfect name for him. Benjamin suited him perfectly.”
But not everyone was happy with the name. “We decided on his name after he was born, so it was a surprise to everyone. When my sister Alice found out we named the baby Benjamin, she got really upset. She said she had wanted to use that name since she was a kid and told us to change it.”
“I knew about her list of names but thought it was just a childhood thing. Also, she is single with no plans of having a baby soon,” she added.Emma continued, “Alice didn’t let it go. Over the next few weeks, she kept suggesting different names, some of which were really strange.”
The situation got worse. Emma said, “I tried to be patient. But things got bad at a family dinner a month after Benjamin was born. My husband and I invited my parents and Alice over to celebrate the baby’s birthday. The evening started well with laughter and stories, but it quickly turned sour when Alice brought up Benjamin’s name again.
I looked at my parents, hoping for support, but saw them nodding along with Alice. Then my mother said gently, ’Alice has a point. Benjamin is a lovely name, but she chose it before you. Why not consider something else? We just want what’s best for our family.’” Emma quoted.
She then continued, “The family is now torn about the moment I need them the most. Do you think I was so wrong by choosing this name?”